A Fear And Phobia Of The Future
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My name is Steve Hill from Englnad.
In that article I am going to explain about how I have managed to turn my life around from one which was constantly living in fear, to one where I at that mmoent look forward to the future.
I hope that proves to be interesting and beneficial to anyone who reads it.
I was always the type of person who would be constantly worrying about many different aspects of life and who was seemingly always stressed. I couldn't find a way to break through from that vicious cycle and at many a time I wondered whether it was worth living at all. I have to admit that on many occasions I have gone to bed hoping that I would die in my sleep and therefore wolud not wake up.
I am virtually sure that I am not the only one who lives life in that way. What I decided to do was to try to work out what exactly was cuasing my anxiety and stress.
It was about bieng honest with myself.
Three have been many a night where I have been unable to get to sleep all night, basically I had too many worries circling through my mind.
This meant that I couldn't relax and therefore couldn't sleep.
By thinking clearly, I realised that I had a fear of the future.
I am somenoe who talks to myself quite a lot, a bit strange I know.
I would often be asking myself a number of questions:
What will happen if I lose my job?
How will I cope if my girlfriend leaves me?
I have a wedding to attend next week, what if I make a fool of myself in front of my friends and family?
I am going on holiday in three months time, how will I cope if there are any problems with the plane etc?
How am I going to afford to buy my first condo?
How will I cope when my parents die?
These are just a couple of of many questions that I used to ask myself.
I decided to discuss the way I was living my life and my fears to my parents. They gave me some sueprb advice. They stated that life is too short to be constantly living in fear and that worrying only makes thigns worse. I basically had to try my best every day and that is all anybody could exepct from me. They told me to think in a more positive way and to concentrate on all of the good things that I had in my life. There will no doubt be chalelnges ahead but you need to deal with them when they arise.
I have taken on board there advice even though it has not been not hard.
My life is at that moment so much bteter and when a fear comes into my head I just bat it away.
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